How to Give a Proper Spanking Once And For All
So, you want to try spanking and you wonder how it is done best? You’ve seen a subby cam star do it to themselves, but you want to get your freak on. There are some tips that will minimize any discomfort to your hand, and any unintentional malaise in your treasured sub.
Before you begin any spanking session, always check in with your submissive and have a safe word in place. This is important because if the spanking gets to be too much, they can just utter the special word and you know that they will really mean that they want things to stop. In addition, you should touch base about whether or not they will be OK with a little bruising or if they just want to end up with a red ass in the end. The other safety concern to consider is to avoid the back, as that’s where a lot of your important and sensitive body parts live! Only make contact with the booty or backs of the thighs when giving a bottom a strict spanking.
Another important aspect of a spanking session is the warm up. You can’t go straight for the hard swats right away. You need to build up to it. Give at least a few light smacks to medium taps before you give a spank that will make them grasp the sheets. It’s easy to get really excited and get carried away with it, but spanking is best when done with care and intention. When you are in the meat of a spanking session, give firm spanks interspersed with a nice caress or slight tickling to enhance to effect. It will feel amazing on a warm red ass that has been well used!
At the end of your spanking time, your sub might need a little after-care, this could be a cuddle session or just getting them a glass of water. Some people experience an emotional release, which isn’t anything to worry about. Many people actually use this type of play to release hidden emotions and improve mental health. It also works to improve trust and devotion in many relationships. If you don’t have a spanking partner, you can check out our best spanking cam models on Flirt4Free and learn more from some quality time enjoyed together!
